Okay so … about those transgender public washroom issues.
My thoughts are that we change the labels from Men’s and Women’s to “those with vaginas” and “those with penises”.
We redesign the “vagina” washrooms to better meet the requirements of those with vaginas e.g. 50 % more stalls. We restructure all washrooms to better meet safety needs e.g. open doorways so that others can hear calls for help.
We encourage people to stop associating public washrooms with sexuality or using them for sex.
We encourage people including trans people to stop thinking in terms of strictly “male” and/or strictly “female”.